Shared Holidays

Is it a good idea to share holidays and birthdays after divorce?
Your never 100% divorced when you share children with your former spouse. The reality is there will be events that you will want to be included on to celebrate your children and life. Birthdays, graduations, parties, weddings, and so much more.
Some folks are celebrating these events together. How do they do it?
They know it's not all about them- but about the children they share too! They must communicate with the other parent, effectively and with details. These parents treat raising their children as a business relationship. Part of doing so requires careful planning together and establishing on going traditions with each other.
Can it be done? Let us know!